You can toss away your self-help books on the subject
"How to Win a Mate," and for that matter you needn't keep
the classic of the genre, "How to Win Friends and Influence
People." Thanks to Sharon Maguire's witty, warm, charming
and goofy film, "Bridget Jones's Diary," we know the secret of
winning the affection of others, and it's not those three little
words. The eight words you need to practice are, "I like you
just the way you are," the key quote in this wonderful,
heartwarming movie. But oh, it's not that easy; the most
difficult task of all is not simply mouthing the terms but
genuinely believing them down to your core. How many of us
are that healthy psychologically that we maintain such a love
of our fellows?
Not many at all: therein lies the whole problem with the title
character played by a remarkable performer. Renee
Zellweger, introduced to a large audience with her role as an
awestruck maiden in "Jerry Maguire" and delightful as the
soap-addicted waitress in "Nurse Betty," has fleshed out a
significant accomplishment this time around in a British
production which finds her able not only to charm everyone in
the audience (this was never her problem) but in holding on
to an English accent throughout the story. Here is proof once
again that the Americans (remember "Sweet November" and
"Say It Isn't So")--compared to our English cousins--seem to
have little competence to make romantic comedy.
Since most of us are hip enough to realize that other
people do not automatically like us just the way we are, we
work out in gyms, we take courses to improve our diction and
knowledge, we spend half our paychecks lying on the couch
spilling our guts to professionals who are probably making out
their grocery lists while we chatter. The Bridget Jones
created by Helen Fielding's best-selling novel is the sort who,
at age thirty-two, overweight, drinking and smoking heavily,
believes that she has no chance of outrunning her biological
clock much less even meeting her soul mate unless she does
something about her flaws. Remarkably, while self-
improvement is cool--cutting down on alcohol, tobacco and
food is perfectly appropriate--her presumed race toward
permanent spinsterhood has little to do with her bad habits
but everything to do with the lack of available men. This is
the very reason that women are more likely to go for "Bridget
Jones's Diary" than men, given that while Bridget herself is a
klutz, the men in her life are worse.
Just before Ms. Jones begins to commit her daily
experiences to a diary hoping her book will somehow
communicate what she needs to do, her mum (Gemma
Jones) goes through the usual maternal rites of trying to fix
her daughter up with eligible men. This time around, Bridget,
who is herself a publicist for a major London publishing firm
run by Daniel Cleaver (Hugh Grant), is introduced to a man
she grows to dislike for spurning her, human rights lawyer
Mark Darcy (Colin Firth). While she resolves to look for a
down-to-earth guy, she instead winds up with her clever,
flirtatious boss, Daniel, who is accustomed to writing
coquettish e-mail to her, commenting on the brevity of her
skirts. "Is your skirt out sick today?" is a sample of the
publisher's repartee, an exchange which eventually results in
their commencing an affair. Almost simultaneously with the
dampening of the undertaking, her mother announces that
she has left her father (Jim Broadbent) and has taken up with
an unctuous fellow who hawks schlock on a home shopping
channel.
Fortunately for a typical American audience, English
romantic comedy does not rely on the often prosaic talkiness
so common to French films. Director Sharon Maguire has a
keen sense of pacing and of comic timing, in one case
flashing a series of still pictures across the screen to sum up
Bridget's love life for the year. She never lingers too long on
a party, a bedroom scene, or a vista of her title character's
depressed musings along in her flat watching everything from
the shopping channel to "Fatal Attraction." Though Maguire
takes us sharply from one scene to another, the entire movie
is seamless, with Zellweger appearing in almost every scene
in a variety of clothing from a bathing suit in the dead of a
blistery winter's night (filmed with machine-made snow,
incidentally, in the middle of a London summer) to some
stunning formal wear when she makes a bumbling speech at
a formal reception. Side roles of Bridget's well-meaning but
not-at-all helpful friends fit in neatly as does a cameo with
Salman Rushdie at a publishing party which features Bridget
meaning to ask Mr. Rushdie something of significance but
ending asking him for directions to the loo.
If men are not as attracted to this film as women, they're
making a mistake in logic. Men would do well to think of their
own vulnerabilities. Despite our macho walk and gallant talk,
don't we all feel a little like jello inside just like Bridget--that
we have no chance in the world to be liked simply as we are?
Copyright © 2001 Harvey Karten